Saturday 25 July 2009

Understanding other

Well why do we have to have discussions? Is it because one of us is wrong. Are we fighting between truth and false? Do we intentionally take the wrong side and want to prove that, is it like a debate? one always have to take the opposition. Generally as far as i guess we don't think that we are taking wrong side and discussing. Its not about the right and wrong. If i would know i am on wrong side i wouldn't discuss with that. i would simply accept that i have taken wrong. But its not that one of us are wrong and one of us are right in the discussion. We all have our supporting things. But still both of us cant come to conclusion.

Its just our view angle. Both the party see through different angle wanted to prove through that angle and would want other to accept him. Both are seeing the same thing but from the different aspect. And most importantly discussion is upon what matters us most. We see things differently and we take some as serious matter to us and some doesn't have any importance. Its the depth how much we are sensitive to things that comes on our way. One cares lot about every minute things and other only see those things that are big enough to hit the target. Or both care about the different things than one another. No two people have same thinking or the threshold to bear things. Discussion are always happening anywhere and it obvious i guess. We don't have to ruin our relations if we have different views. We will always see things differently. And there is nothing to worry about it at all. You do have to worry about your responsibility and the job you do. Just go through your own philosophy.